Every day we make choices about the people we meet and I thought I would test my theory on how easy we make choices a couple of years ago. As I started the talk to an audience of 100 people, I deliberately buttoned my jacket up wrongly. I knew a simple mistake of buttoning up a jacket wrongly could probably spilt the audience. There would be those in one corner sat silently thinking, “what a loser, calls herself a speaker, can’t even get dressed without a carer.